Here we are, already partway through July! For many families, the change of pace over summer might be taking its toll. With younger children, summer may feel like it’s flying or crawling by, depending on the day. Some families are racing from camps to vacations, while others are navigating long stretches of unstructured days.

One challenge that consistently shows up across families is the summer slump. Routines loosen, bedtime drifts later, kids sleep in, and the predictable structure of the school year fades. Learning loss is part of it, but the slump affects far more than academics. Parents are often also feeling off-balance this time of year, due to disrupted sleep, irregular meals, shifting work–family boundaries, and the mental load of keeping everyone occupied.

The summer slump isn’t a failure. It’s a natural response to a season with fewer anchors. And there are steps you can take toward gently recalibrating the rest of the summer.

• Maintain a reasonable bedtime and wake‑up time. Even if summer mornings are slower, keeping sleep and wake times within a predictable range helps stabilize mood, energy, and behavior for kids and adults.
• Implement a few simple routines. A weekly pool day, daily quiet hour, or other set activities give everyone some predictability in an otherwise flexible season. Visual schedules reduce anxiety for kids, and co‑planning helps them feel ownership. When boredom or loneliness creep in, reach out to friends and family for in‑person connection.
• Support learning in small, everyday ways. The summer slide is real, but it can be prevented without a curriculum. Daily reading, math games, baking, journaling, or writing letters all reinforce academic skills naturally. Parks and libraries offer free resources that make learning feel like play.
• Set clear and consistent screen‑time boundaries. Define limits and rules, and stick to them. Consider having kids earn screen time through chores. You can also require that a portion of their screen use supports learning, whether that’s reading apps, math games, or creative tools.  
• Keep everyone moving. When heat, rain, or work keep you indoors, small bursts of activity help regulate mood and energy. Try a dance party in the living room, a stretch routine before bed, or simple games like Simon Says or Follow the Leader.
• Remember that unstructured time is healthy. Downtime teaches kids how to self‑direct, problem‑solve, and rest. Allowing space without constant entertainment can actually ease the summer slump rather than intensify it.

If summer doesn’t feel easy for your family, you’re not alone. And struggling doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. Keep making small, steady adjustments and trust that they add up.

In the final weeks before school starts, gradually shift everyone back toward a regular sleep schedule to make the transition smoother. Set up easier mornings by prepping lunches, clothes, and essentials the night before. Make it a shared 10–15 minute routine so the responsibility doesn’t fall entirely on parents.

And above all, when it comes to the summer slump and resetting for fall, offer your family and yourself plenty of grace!

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Dr. David Lowenstein is a Columbus, Ohio-based psychologist with more than 35 years of experience. He conducts individual, family, and group therapy sessions in his German Village office and also via telehealth. Dr. Lowenstein is also available for expert forensic testimony, and for educational workshops and presentations. He is frequently called upon as an expert source for print, radio, and broadcast media. Contact Dr. Lowenstein at Lowenstein & Associates, 691 South Fifth Street, Columbus, Ohio, 43206, or call 614.443.6155 or 614.444.0432.